**Time for this post? Reading…8 minutes. Viewing…5 minutes. Implementation…undoubtedly the hardest part.
Seize what opportunity?
I’m thinking of the holiday advantage of having family members all together at some time during the season.
And do what with that opportunity?
Use it as a chance to talk about your wishes for body disposition when you are no longer using it. Or—if you are an adult child of living parents—it’s a chance for you to find out what they want.
What would I talk about?
**Time for this post? Reading…3 minutes. Video…12 minutes. Thinking…up to you.
Now that I’ve started thinking about the ins and outs of dying, I find myself in conversations about what I’m learning and considering.
Last week, I had one of those conversations with a long-time friend. We discussed my developing ideas about donating my body to medical education and writing my own obituary. As we were wrapping up, Barb said, “Do you find it depressing, all this planning for dying?” That’s a fair question, especially given our cultural denial of death.
My answer: “Not at all.”
Lately, I’ve been thinking about dying. Not that I’m planning to do it any time soon, but because I realize how little I know about dying…and about what it would take to die well.
You’d think I would be well-versed on the subject by now, considering that my parents, four grandparents, and one sister have all died during my adulthood. But my ignorance is no surprise, considering that dying isn’t talked about in Western culture except perhaps in hushed tones and very private conversations.
Yet 100% of us are going to die.